When one is pushed into a space of negativity from an outside factor, one's decisions and thoughts become heavily influenced by this new, dark forced that has entered one's space. Was it by choice? As much as I'd like to say no, I must confess it was. You always have a choice whether to let them overtake you, or to fight back. I, for one, was weak that night.
But let me tell you one thing. I understand that people need to do things their way. I understand that people may be put back due to occurring actions. I understand that sometimes, it's hard to find that silver lining in all that mess.
However, you always, always, ALWAYS have a choice.
So, are you going to-
Let it burn you up? Or let it fuel your determination?
Let it dampen your mood? Or find a way to get over it?
Do you want to be angry and sour for the rest of your life? Or do you want to be able to channel your moods to clear that black space?
Deal with it. Don't drag others into it. You have a choice. Either you want to, or you don't want to. Don't let it ruin your mood because consequently, you'll end up doing more harm than any good whatsoever.
Until then,
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