Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Hoppipola

What is the actual definition of 'belonging'? Usually, for you to feel like you belong, you first make a friend who has mutual interests with you and the sense of belonging comes soon afterwards. My family and I are of the same blood, yet there is no sense of belonging around them. Though my friends are belonging, it's hard for them to belong to me at times. Damn, I don't think I'm even making sense. I'm just curious. What is belonging?

Until next time.
xx

1 comment:

  1. Hmm, it seems that the person is someone that you know of but don't really know, if that makes any sense? You are happy for their presence, even if it is not as clear as other people in your life ... correct?
    OWh, exams are the worst, I know what you mean though, still doesn't have that finality until you see it in writing. As to me, I am doing alright, always just alright. I often wonder about people who reply "great!" to that question. I can't say I have ever done so, but I look forward to returning such an answer soon:) And you?

    And to your post. I think I may have highlighted it before, or maybe not, but I have often thought that I am not at one with my own family. I belong in a sense, but it is not the full feeling of what family should be. Belonging to me is being exactly where you are needed. Belonging for me has levels, meaning that you 'fit' in some places or situations more than others. I can not number the amount of times that I have asked myself 'where do I belong?' The answer is ... I will know when I get there

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